I’ve always wanted this, but I’ve always been too afraid to take it. I wanted to have a purpose so important that I could focus on doing it whatever it took and not have to worry about life or death. I wanted a battle where defeating my opponent came before preserving my own life. Where I had to win to protect others and I could for once do something in life without having to worry about the consequences of a hundred other things like whether I walked away or not. I longed for purpose and I thought I would only find it in combat saving lives.
Some militaries have a training course they call ‘drown proofing’. Different services do it differently, but the main gist is to ether tie up or load down men in water where they ether have to sink or swim for hours on end, the point being for them to have to hit the point they think their going to drown and make them keep going. God did that this year, and wile part of me feels like I’m coughing up gallons of water I’ve swallowed and still trying to catch my breath, the other part of me feels like the beast I’ve always felt God wanted me to be, I’m not scared anymore. I don’t remember ever being scared of death, but every decision I didn’t make reeked of fear, the fear of failure.
I never understood the parable of the woman at the well. Jesus said that once you drank from His water you would never thirst again. I didn’t get that. Granted I was saved at 10 and don’t really remember a huge sense of something missing before, it was a decision of faith, not of desperation. But in my mind it’s easy to be unsaved, nothing to loose, yet becoming a Christian meant taking on a list of goals that we would never attain on earth, I don’t remember thirsting before I got saved, I was a good kid, but I haven’t felt good enough ever since.
Now I do believe I was saved, though perhaps what Jesus was talking about wasn’t salvation, but rather a revelation, I don’t know and I’m not trying to start a religion on it… But I have drank from the water He spoke of, but it wasn’t 15 years ago when I “made a decision”, it was a few months ago when I in desperation, with nothing else to loose, when I knew there was no way I could ever have safety much less provide it, that was when I gave my life to Jesus and after only a few months I can honestly say that I’ll never be the same again. I can’t really go into how it all happened, but I’ve always known what God wanted me to be, I just felt helpless to get there and in short, God basically told me to Be who He told me, and He’d take me there, not to worry about the journey. But there’s so much more than that. I feel more identity, value, peace, joy and hope than I’ve ever had in life, and the funny thing is I’m so not where I want to be and don’t have any of the things I value most in life, But for the first time I know how to become who I’m suppose to be. I feel like a totally knew person, it wasn’t a prayer or a conversion point, but it was as the Bible talks about in Philippians 2:12
Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.
I’d obeyed in His presence, But it was as if God took everything from me, all hope of ever becoming who He wanted me to be, but, He taught me a few simple things, and though I honestly didn’t think it would work, the simple fact is, I’d made a promise, and live or die, I was going to keep that promise, so applied what I’d learned, and kept trying. For weeks every day my heart saw no light at the end of the tunnel, my mind kept saying it would never happen. But I’d sworn not to give up, so taking one step, and then another. I forced the fear to the back of my mind which was kinda easier cause I didn’t have hope anyway, but I kept trying. “Commit thy works unto the Lord and thy thought’s shall be established.”
After a two weeks God gave me peace though I still didn’t like it and I still didn’t have hope, I knew I was doing what I was suppose to and I found peace in that. Then a few weeks later at thanksgiving wile I still didn’t have any earthly “reassurance” God taught me to have Joy, and that it was something from within, not something circumstantial. People, places and things may bring happiness yes, but joy comes from God, from within, from giving. As I learned to be a blessing to those around me just because I knew God wanted me to, I found joy, it was on accident :-P but God is good. ;-) Then a few weeks later God gave me hope. Again not circumstantial, but my faith was renewed. I realized that God gives the increase and I never need to be afraid of messing something up. It’s my job to just obey.
For the first time in my life I don’t live in fear, I’m more optimistic on life than I’ve ever been and I somehow feel like a new creature in Christ. I’m not defeated anymore. I still sin, but I can accept forgiveness and go on and not try to pay it off or something wile I fall deeper under it’s burden. I still haven’t done so many things I feel God has laid on my heart, but God gives me the satisfaction of a job well done doing what He’s laid on my heart to do today. I still don’t have all that I want in life, but God’s assured me, only after I gave in and was willing to serve Him without, but God has assured me that when I am ready, He will provide, that He has plans for me, and He hasn’t put this longing in my heart just to torture me :-P but it’s not torture of something I lost anymore, it’s motivation for something He wants me to not just have, but be able to use for His honor and glory. I’ve had before, but didn’t have a clue how to live, God’s making me onto Who He wants me where I am right now so that when He takes me to that Where that I know He has in store, I’ll be able to be the Who He’s called me to be at that time.